Tip for the fellas

Dating Tip: If you ask a girl to go out with you on a date, do NOT be a lazy ass and ask her what she wants to do. 

What the hell is up with some of you guys? Since when did men start thinking a first date does not involve dinner and then some sort of fun activity (NOT a movie) after? Or when did you start thinking that it's her job to think of what to do?? Don't make her sit there and think of where she wants you to take her, put your grown man chonies on and take initiative to at least make dinner plans then see where the night takes you from there.

Thank you!!!!